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Sheryl Rhodes's avatar

"And if a man were to truly have the psychology of a woman, in my submission, they would know that, and they wouldn’t enter those spaces, and it’s for that reason that your Honour would not find that, by entering spaces that women psychologically fear men who appear to be men enter, that it just proves that this applicant lacks the psychology of a woman, and is, thereby, not a woman, but he is a man. "

I have had this exact same though myself. If a man who identifies as a woman was truly able to understand the experience of being a woman, he would know with every fiber of his being that there are situations where women are vulnerable to male predation due to their sexed bodies---and he would NOT impose himself on biological women in those circumstances. As the attorney noted, the very fact that this man insists on pushing his way into these situations shows that he is not "psychologically" a woman. Well of course he's not an actual woman, we all know that, but I appreciate the attorney thinking this through and making his argument in a way that has a chance of carving out exceptions to the current laws which demand absolute obedience to the idea that in no way, in any category, are men-who-identify-themselves-as-female different from natal females.

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Ute Heggen's avatar

"feeling psychologically like a woman" means what? It means a wait after every Pap smear to find out if you have cervical cancer, same after mammograms. It means wondering if you're pregnant when your period is late. It means understanding the seriousness of looming adulthood when you must remember monthly supplies as a young teenage girl. No male "feels" this, never will. "Feeling psychologically like a woman" for my ex-husband: co-opting my experiences of 2 natural labors giving birth to the sons he fathered. Narcissism in "trans world" is the belief that long fingernails and designer shoes make your hands and feet appear smaller. Narcissism in "trans world" is appropriating the most stereotypical of surface appearances to claim a false identity. It's tiresome, tedious and taxing, but we have to push back.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uuYMWwIa0oY&t=8s

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