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Dr. Burgo, I have to point out to you that while transwidowsvoices.org has a wealth of information on many of our experiences as trans widows, it is not a comprehensive presentation of what we've been through. In my data of 57 trans widows' experiences (the only such data in the world), 23 womenr eported they had been sexually assaulted (raped, essentially) by her husband, often while he was in a state of autogynophilic arousal, wearing women's lingerie. The other 2/3 of us got out before that happened or were otherwise able to protect ourselves. I've also found there's a pattern of the worst, most violent sexual assaults on the wives (or female partners) in the younger generation; these dudes are watching hypno-sissy porn, request the humiliation experience, then decide to be the perpetrator. In several cases, the rapes were reported to law enforcement. I'm talking about Canada, Scandinavia, the UK and US. None of the sexual crimes were prosecuted. Please do not sugarcoat the violence. Ute Heggen

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