I wonder if it’s not part and parcel of the game - blame the victim: “she didn’t accept me so...”
To me it’s about getting off on controlling others as part of an abusive sexual fantasy, violently if necessary. It gaslights those in the context with the fiction of gender to disarm critical response.
I wonder if it’s not part and parcel of the game - blame the victim: “she didn’t accept me so...”
To me it’s about getting off on controlling others as part of an abusive sexual fantasy, violently if necessary. It gaslights those in the context with the fiction of gender to disarm critical response.
The most disturbing version is extending the abusive fantasy into childhood by recruiting weak adults to project the fiction onto their own children, or children in their care, again gaslighting any critical response with the fiction of gender.
I’ve been around too many kinky men to pretend what’s actually going on is “self-actualisation” or some type of reactive formation.
I want to respond in more detail to your interesting insights on this subject, but will need to delay until tomorrow. I have a pile of paperwork here that needs my attention if I want to get paid. Please "hold a compassionate and accountable space" for me until I return. LOL!
BTW great, super-clear writings.
I wonder if it’s not part and parcel of the game - blame the victim: “she didn’t accept me so...”
To me it’s about getting off on controlling others as part of an abusive sexual fantasy, violently if necessary. It gaslights those in the context with the fiction of gender to disarm critical response.
The most disturbing version is extending the abusive fantasy into childhood by recruiting weak adults to project the fiction onto their own children, or children in their care, again gaslighting any critical response with the fiction of gender.
I’ve been around too many kinky men to pretend what’s actually going on is “self-actualisation” or some type of reactive formation.
Thanks Sufeitzy!
I want to respond in more detail to your interesting insights on this subject, but will need to delay until tomorrow. I have a pile of paperwork here that needs my attention if I want to get paid. Please "hold a compassionate and accountable space" for me until I return. LOL!